Should I give a
Gift to my Boss?
Every winter
season, everyone wonders the same thing, should I give a gift to
my boss? Everyone appreciates being recognized and remembered
for the their work and your boss is no different! Be careful
though! Although there are really no set rules about giving a
gift to your boss, generally each office will have its own set of
gift giving traditions.
If you are
new to the office and you give your boss a gift and no one else
does, you may embarrass your boss and cause resentment among your
coworkers who will see this as an attempt at ‘bribing’ the boss.
If you are unsure of your office’s traditions on giving a gift to
the boss, then ask two or three collegues what the gift giving
etiquette is for your office.
If coworkers
do exchange gifts with the boss, then by all means get him a
gift. Make sure that your gift to the boss is of a non personal
nature and is nothing too expensive or you may upset coworkers,
the boss, or worse, the boss's spouse! Again, ask around and
find out what types of things people traditionally give in your
office.
If giving
the boss is not a tradition in your office, then a card expressing
your good wishes and thanks for the job he is doing is perfectly
appropriate. If this doesn’t seem enough, then perhaps it is up
to you to start a new office tradition.
Try to get
your coworkers to all pitch in $5 each and go together on
something as a group. This way there is no misunderstanding on
anyone’s part and it is a great way to build goodwill between you
and your boss. Again, make sure that it is not some of too
personal nature, unless you know of something very specific that
he has been hoping for – again, best cleared through the spouse!
Another
tradition to start is a gift exchange. There a a couple of ways
to do this. First draw a name of a coworker and this becomes the
person you purchase a gift for. This way each gift can be a
little more personalized. The giver can be kept a secret if you
wish. Be sure to set a maximum (and minimum) price limit. Or,
each person brings a wrapped gift and then people take a turn
choosing a gift. Either method, this way everyone gets a gift and
no one is left out.
Whether or
not you decide to give you boss a gift is for you to decide, but
either way, do take the time to tell him or her that you
appreciate the work that they do.