History of Father's Day
United States and Canada are among the few
countries that honor fathers with a special day every year and the
history of this holiday is interesting. Every 3rd
Sunday in June is set aside for this special day. There is some
debate as to when the first Father’s Day actually took place, but
history generally acknowledges that a woman named Sonora Dodd was
the most active in promoting this day for dads.
Sonora Dodd was
from Spokane Washington and when listening to a sermon about
mothers on Mother’s Day in 1908, she got the idea of honoring
fathers as well. Sonora’s father was a civil war veteran who
along with his wife was raising their 5 children on a farm in
eastern Washington state. It was during the birth of their sixth
child that his wife died, leaving her father, William Smart, to
raise the 6 children by himself.
It is no wonder
that Sonora thought of her father on mother’s day as she had grown
up seeing his tireless efforts and sacrifice to keep his family
together. She wanted to honor him and all the fathers like him
who raised their children in such a dedicated and selfless
way. So Sonora spoke to the pastor of her church and told him of
her idea. She had originally picked June 5th as the
date of the first Father’s Day since it was her own father's
birthday, but as the church and community couldn’t organize the
event that quickly, they settled on the third Sunday of June.
It wasn’t too
long before the idea caught on with other cities and states and
soon many states and organizations began to lobby congress to
declare Father’s Day an official U.S. holiday much like Mother’s
Day.
Finally in 1924
Father’s Day became national when President Calvin in order to
“establish more intimate relations between fathers and their
children and to impress upon fathers the full measure of their
obligations", agreed with the idea of a national Father’s Day.
However it was not until 1966 under President Lyndon Johnson,
that Father’s Day became official when he signed a Presidential
Proclamation that declared every 3rd Sunday in June
would be set aside to honor Father’s. In 1972 President Richard
Nixon then made that 3rd Sunday in June a permanent
national observance, a little behind Mother’s day which was
official almost 60 years before!
Today, like
mother’s day, children can continue this history of honoring
their father’s by wearing a white flower if their father is
deceased, or a red one if he is still living. It is an important
day to make contact through phone calls, visits, cards and gifts,
strengthening bonds and even repairing and renewing some old ones
between father and child.
By Laura Lansink. Laura Lansink is a
successful website author and publisher